Aug 12, 2015
I Don't Date Creeps
Dating - it should be classified as a sport. Those who aren't very athletic will find some sort of victory in dating, even if it's just counting the date as a success if no one spills anything. I certainly did. While I was excited at the idea of dating and perhaps finding that special someone to enjoy spending my time with, I knew I shouldn't have even attempted it in the beginning.
We all know dating takes time and the right amount of attention, but there's a fine line between flirting and just being creepy.
For example, I was in a local Facebook chatter group, just commenting on a post about the weather. This local guy messages me out of the blue and says, "You're so beautiful. Wanna go on a date?". Considering I've never talked to this person before, I calmly (while feeling a bit creeped out) told him that I was not interested, and blocked him. I didn't want to give me the chance to harass me in case he was upset that I declined his offer. It wasn't the first time I was creeped out by guys, but it was still unnerving.
Luckily, things started happening in my life that kept me from dating and to be honest, I didn't want to try dating after that. I know not all guys are like that, but when it comes to creepiness, it's definitely a turn-off and makes me thinking that maybe dating right now isn't for me.